Saturday, February 2, 2013

Be Who You Really Are. Work. Enjoy.


“Often people attempt to live their lives backwards: they try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want so that they will be happier.  The way it actually works is the reverse.  You must first be who you really are, then, do what you need to do, in order to have what you want.”
Margaret Young

Quote from the book, “The Artist's Way” by Julia Cameron 

Over the last several years, I have really defined who I am personally and in business.  Anyone that knows me can probably agree I am an open book.  (My face usually gives me away!)  I prefer to be direct but have compassion and truly enjoy helping people.  I know that I couldn’t do anything in business unless it was helping individuals achieve their goals.
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When I changed my career goals from “attaining a certain income level” to “focusing on helping people,” I was able to achieve living a comfortable life and  I am happy at the same time.  I do work extra hard to fund my travel habits but I don’t mind because I love what I do!  Perspective of how you view your situation, job, or relationship is really what shapes how we view our success and happiness. 

Create your own definition of both and do the work to get there. 
  
Empires aren’t built in a day.

Saturday, January 26, 2013

No Fear


Fear.  We all let it creep in sometimes.  While working with one of my clients this past weekend, fear joined the conversation.  My client is just beginning to formulate the idea for her business.  As part of my analysis working with someone starting a business, I asked her to describe any current challenges.  Her answer was “My Fear.”

Fear, when it shows up, acts as immobilizer or all together can crumble a good idea.  I have feared many things in my life (scary movies still a little) but every challenging moment has usually taught me a lesson once I faced it.  

We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot. 
Eleanor Roosevelt

Once we began our discussion around this fear she has for starting a business, the confidence in her abilities and passion for what she is creating came through.  She mentioned that she has always felt she will never fail at anything in her life that she really applies herself to.  Believing in yourself is what will conquer any fear.  Although you may have missteps on your journey, your confidence in yourself and passions will keep you moving forward on your path.

Overcoming fear will only empower you to keep assembling your empire.   

Didn’t we all used to own a t-shirt that said “No Fear”… what happened to that brand anyway?

Monday, January 21, 2013

Start Something that Matters


Over the last few years, I have developed a passion for reading.  In my usual style of multi-tasking, I always seem to be reading a few books at a time.  Almost always, my reads are business books.  I am a firm believer that if we are not learning, we are not growing.  It is one way I try to stay polished on my craft.


One of the books I recently finished that I thoroughly enjoyed was “Start Something that Matters” by Blake Mycoskie, the founder of TOMS.  It was a pretty quick and easy read, but was very inspirational.  Like other individuals I admire in business, such as Sir Richard Branson, his concept of a “For Profit Socially Conscious” business is really shaping the business climate and hopefully influencing how people approach starting a business.   He wrote the book to share his story of starting TOMS along with his philosophy on numerous topics.  As we all have our own methods to our madness, I find it helpful to read about what other successful people do.  It provides me with perspective and invites openness of thought. 

Chapter 4 is titled “be resourceful without resources”.  If you ever look back to a period of your life when you were monetarily challenged, think about how resourceful you were.  My days at Michigan State were probably the thriftiest I have ever been, but I survived, got my degree, and still managed to travel the world and created fantastic memories. When money is tight, you have to get creative.  There is no other choice. 

My approach with advising my clients is the same.  I do have to say I love a good negotiation, but I try to be as resourceful as I can with their allotted budget for marketing.  One important point is always just asking the company you are negotiating with “Is this your best price or package?”  Pick up the phone and talk to someone.  Be creative and you’ll be surprised at the savings you can find.   I don’t care if my client is located in Los Angeles, CA or Clinton Township, MI (shout out to my client Visor Frames), I’ll find them the best deal and save money where I can.

Two points that resonated with me in Chapter 5, titled “Keep it Simple.”  Mycoskie talks about how you should unclutter your workspace and own as little as possible.  He shares that he is more creative when he’s not surrounded by a lot of stuff .  He mentioned some of the best ideas he’s come up with have happened on an airplane.  I can attest to that.  The conception of my business began with an idea I had while flying to Michigan. 

Another tip Mycoskie provided was to schedule everything to simplify life and alleviate worry.  As my business grows, scheduling of my time has been extremely critical.  How else am I going to assemble my empire without being astutely organized?!  The “life lesson” I learned in my 20’s was to have work/life balance.   He states, “Now I schedule everything, so that when I’m with a person, I am totally present.”  Your personal and business relationships won’t suffer if you dedicate time to both and be present.

Mycoskie, ends the books with, “For me, the ultimate success of this book will be measured not by how many copies it sells, but by the number of people it inspires and the number of letters we receive. “  He then encourages people to share their stories on-line.   For me, with my consulting business, I hope to serve as inspiration for my clients as they inspire me with their passion for their respected businesses.  As I share my experiences, thoughts, and sources for inspiration, through this blog, I hope to motivate and spark something inside you as well.

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

One of LA's Best-Kept Secrets... Lake Shrine


Lake Shrine is what they describe as a "spiritual sanctuary," located just a mile from the Pacific Ocean.  There is a natural spring-fed lake and beautiful gardens, which creates the perfect atmosphere to break away from the chaos of Los Angeles.  I was introduced to this place by a dear friend and am thankful to have found a place within the city I can retreat to.  Whether I just want to reflect, reset or even just surround myself with nature, this is truly one of the best-kept secrets of LA. 

  I enjoy soaking up the surrounding, especially all the beautiful flowers.  It is the perfect oasis to read or write or even just be.  An interesting fact about Lake Shrine, is that Gandhi selected five places in the world for his ashes to buried and Lake Shrine is one of them.  There is definitely a special energy here, which I find comforting and inspiring.  

What inspires you?


Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Year of the Empire Begins!


2013 is upon us. New Year. New Beginnings. Reflect. Reset…and Go! 

After celebrating the creation and first anniversary of “Gardiner Connections”, many of my initials goals were met and loftier goals were devised.  I am on my path to assembling my empire and thank everyone who is on this journey with me.

I seek time in nature and being present to this wonderful world around us for my inspiration so I thought I would begin my first post with the first sunset of 2013.

Enjoy.



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